Tuesday, February 26, 2008

How to Approach women in 3 simple guides and tips

How to Approach women in 3 simple guides and tips

Are you tired of being alone on Saturday night? I was like you once. I was lonely, unsuccessful with women, and just generally depressed with life. I decided one day to throw my entire mindset away and start anew with an improved mind-set. So I decided to go out and approach the first women I laid my eyes on. I've been doing this ever since and I have found out what works and what doesn't. Now that I am much more successful with women, I would like to share with you my top 3 tips for approaching women!

Tip #1 - Be different!

Women get approached every single day almost non stop whenever they're out. Probably GREATER then 9 times out of 10 a guy is going to approach them with a compliment. Usually, all they end up leaving with is rejection or a fake phone number. Instead of opening with a compliment, ask them an opinionated question like for example, if you're at a mall open with something like this "Hey, I'm here shopping for my sisters birthday present, can you help me?" Or also you could try a harmless joke like "Nice shoes, my baby sister has a pair just like them." Most guys won't ever touch this method for approaching women even if their life was on the line. Although it sounds strange, TRUST me, this is the single most effective way to be when approaching women.

Tip #2 - Be Groomed!

First impressions are everything. Nothing sets off a first impression more then messy hair, an acne ridden face, or untrimmed facial hair and nails. You don't have to dress in $100 dollar designer shirts, but make sure what you do wear is nice, fitted and matching. Make sure your clothing is always wrinkle-free, stainless, color coded matching, and always keep your shoes squeaky clean. Always shave your face and always fix your hair. Keep your nails trimmed and your teeth clean. Also never forget your deodorant and don't be afraid to apply a little bit of cologne.

Tip #3 - Be Confident!

Confidence is a beautiful thing. It can turn a selfless loser into a stud that attracts everyone around him. Confidence is the SINGLE most important thing when approaching women. If you appear confident, you will be more successful with approaching women, and life in general. A woman isn't going to give her number to a man who speaks quietly and hunches over. A woman wants a man in control and who displays this through conversation and body language. Don't be afraid of rejection, because chances are you will never see this woman again. If you just adapt the mindset that trumpets should play when you walk into the room, your life will INSTANTLY improve. Act confident, look confident, BE confident.

If you follow these tips as closely as I say, then I can guarantee you that you will INSTANTLY see an improvement on your success with women and with your life in general. I hope you enjoyed those three quick tips designed to help you increase your success with women simply and without much effort.

3 Tips For Approaching Women by Clark Cassidy

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Love doctor's tip Anniversary Gifts that are not boring

Love doctor's tip Anniversary Gifts that are not boring

Sending anniversary gifts not only shows somebody how much you care and appreciate them it also shows what sort of person you are. The gift its self will represent how much thought and effort you have made so now is the time to pull out all the stops and find anniversary gifts that will really be remembered.

Anniversary gifts need not be expensive and more often than not some of the more thoughtful anniversary gifts are those that are filled with sentimental worth rather than monetary value. You may have considered spending $60 on flowers, and $20 on chocolates but your money would be far better spent finding a gift with a difference.

If the gift is for your partner then romance is the key, consider poetry or maybe even having a song written for them, these types of anniversary gifts are probably things you have never considered before but they really are within your reach and budget.

Did you know there are poets online waiting to take details from you to create a unique poem? Sending something so personal and thoughtful will be remembered and cherished for a life time. Once of the great things about buying any sort of gifts, whether it is for a wedding, anniversary or birthday is that the internet holds the key to finding fantastic gifts ideas for every occasion with out the need to physically enter shops, thus avoiding the hustle and bustle of a busy town.

When looking for anniversary gifts it is always wise to set yourself a budget, it is very easy to get carried away and over spend. The last thing you want is to upset your beloved by getting yourself into debt.

The saying 'it is the thought that counts' really is true. It is easy to pick up jewelry, chocolates and wine however your partner will be far more appreciative if they know you have taken time out to find something extra special.

Try to be imaginative, consider what they enjoy or maybe something you enjoy doing together. Nowadays with life getting busier and busier maybe your time could be the perfect anniversary gift. Take time out to spend with one another or book a weekend away.

What ever you decide to give as an anniversary gift remember you are giving this to someone you love to show them you have enjoyed the time you have been married as well as show them how much you appreciate and want to be with them. An anniversary is a time for a couple to be together and express how they feel, a dozen roses may seem romantic but is there another anniversary gift out there that says more?.

Allen Jesson writes for a site that specializes in helping you find perfect anniversary gifts, wedding gifts and birthday gifts.

Love doctor's tip Anniversary Gifts that are not boring

Monday, February 18, 2008

Love Poem of the Day presented by the real love doctor.

Love Poem of the Day presented by the real love doctor.

Together Forever

We were together

And we thought it would last forever

But all dreams don't come true

Like the dream of me and you

We always said we were perfect together

And saying our love would last forever

But soon the time came

Of the heartbreak and the shame

I hope that you wont forget me

Because I won't forget you

I wish i could hear you say you love me

That would be the best dream come true

Love Poem of the Day presented by the real love doctor.

Love Poem of the Day presented by the real love doctor.

Poem Couple in Love

Durable intent…

For a couple in love

Resolute in perpetual affiliation…

Loving the lover for evermore

Vibes of veracity and indisputable warmth…

Penetrate a bond of truthful promise

Assertively budding in reverence and adulation…

Two have instituted the pleasure of loving

The exhilaration of the peaceful hearts…

Dance with mysterious delight

The songs of the cheerful host…

Instigated by an attuned distribution between the servers

Fit for festivity…

The charm of dancing spirits captures the moment

Wrought in the luminosity of agreement…

Fastened by duty and eternal vow

Examples of the heavenly guarantee…

Loving function… admirable love

Gratifying and agreeable…

Everlastingly protected

Romantic and sweet love Quotes of the day

Romantic and sweet love Quotes

Romantic Quotes of Love for you and your partner Presented by the Real love Doctor, We all know that each one of us are romantic and sweet in nature, may this collection of meaningful and sweet love quotes and small poems be inspirational to you.

The hours I spend with you I look upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it… you and you alone make me feel that I am alive…. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough.
~George Moore~

The way you let your hand rest in mine, my bewitching Sweetheart, fills me with happiness. It is the perfection of confiding love. Everything you do, the little unconscious things in particular, charms me and increases my sense of nearness to you, identification with you,
till my heart is full to overflowing.
~Woodrow Wilson~

Your words are my food, your breath my wine. You are everything to me.
~Sarah Bernhardt~

All that you are, all that I owe to you, justifies my love, and nothing, not even you,
~Marquis de Lafayette~

There's only one thing greater than my fear- that is my love. My love will always conquer my fear- but it can't do it immediately. It needs the full force of my love to do it and it takes days for that to emerge out of its dark hiding places.
~John Middleton Murry~

Heavens above! The reason why I'm so jealous of you is obvious enough! If you weren't so damned attractive physically, do you think my heart would beat almost to suffocation whenever I see you speak to someone?
If you don't realize how attractive you are in that way, let me tell you, other people do, and have told me so….
~Violet Trefussis~

O happy hours when I may once more encircle within these arms the dearest object of my love- when I shall again feel the pressure of that "aching head" which will delight to recline upon my bosom, when I may again press to my heart which palpitates with the purest affection that loved one who has so long shared it's undivided devotion.
~Alexander Hamilton Rice~

I cannot exist without you- I am forgetful of every thing but seeing you again- my Life seems to stop there- I see no further. You have absorb'd me. I have a sensation at the present moment as though I were dissolving…. I have been astonished that Men could die Martyrs for religion- I have shudder'd at it- I shudder no more- I could be martyr'd for my Religion- Love is my religion- I could die for that- I could die for you. My creed is Love and you are its only tenet- You have ravish'd me away by a Power I cannot resist.
~John Keats~

The soul that can speak with its eyes can also kiss with a gaze.

You're nothing short of my everything.
~Ralph Block~

Perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically - to those who hardly think about us in return.
~T.H. White~

... See there's this place in me where your fingerprints still rest, your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo. It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me.
~Gretchen Kemp~

It is love, not reason, that is stronger than death.
~Thomas Mann~

Fate sucks. I swear.
~Drugstore Cowboy~

Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever.

Truly loving another means letting go of all expectations. It means full acceptance, even celebration of another's personhood.

A person can be in love with someone forever till the end of time. But if that person doesn't tell or show the feelings of love, it will be just another person living in a dream, lost of true love.

How grave is my condition, for I cannot find the words to say, I need you so.
~Sarah MacLachlan~

I tell you i love you every day for fear that tomorrow isn't another.

If you have any quotes to add - please email me. dasianbong@yahoo.com

Special Love Quotes for you and your partner this valentine season

Special Love Quotes for you and your partner this valentine season

Real Love Doctor Mac presents real love quotes for you and your partner, Love quotes has always been a favorite for all romantic hearts throughout ages to express their feelings, they have made serious contribution to the literary values of love letters connecting heart to heart. Here I have tried to make a collection of some of the all-time favorite cute love quotes that any lover would treasure.

1.)Love is friendship set on fire. --- Jeremy Taylor

2.)Love is like pi - natural, irrational, and very important. ---Lisa Hoffman.

3.) Love is a never ending feeling. ---Adeil Prince.

4.)The greatest thing you'll ever learn Is to love and be loved in return.
~ From "Unforgettable with Love" by Natalie Cole

5.) Love is born of faith, Lives on hope,; And dies of charity.

6.) Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognized, but in the end,
always found with no regrets, forever valued and kept treasured.
~ by Unknown ~

7.)I don't want to live-- I want to love first, And live incidentally.
---Zelda Fitzgerald(in a letter)

8.)Age does not protect you from love but love to some extent protects you from age.
---Jeanne Moreau .

9.)There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
---George Sand .

10.)It is better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.
---Alfred Lord Tennyson.

*11.) Love is but an essents in which we burn..

* 12) Love isn't what makes the world go round; it's what makes the ride worth while!

* 13) Love is a game and everyone plays that game!!

Want more? sure, there's a lot more waiting for u--just follow the links in this page to find out the entire collection of love quotes. .

Hey, I'll be changing this quotes regularly so don't forget to visit this page often.

If you have some quotes on love that you'd like to share with us --you are most WELCOME--just mail them to me and I'll put them on my site-of course you'll be credited for that.

** My heartiest thanks to my friend Christina who have contributed the cute love quote no.11, to Glenda for the short love quote no.13 and for love quote no.12 to an unknown friend who sent it to me though Y messenger-- Thank You So Much for sending these cute love quotes

Saturday, February 16, 2008

How to effectively write a love letter to a Woman and a Man

 How to effectively write a love letter to a Woman and a Man

Hello dear readers of our Love Clinic, The real Love Doctor is in once again, Happy new year to all, the festivities of the season of new Year is almost over and from those times about a week ago or later we have maybe wrote a couple of letters to family and friends??? If so you did, great if not then better start practicing my friend. Today Love Doctor Mac will tackle about how to write effective Love Letters for both sexes, yep that's right. So read on and learn


You want to give her something special - words that convey how you feel about her! But, where do you start?

This article tells you what she wants to know and how to say it to her.


writing a love letter

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

  • 30 minutes to an hour of uninterrupted time.
  • scrap paper
  • nice stationary
  • A good writing instrument
  • a pressed flower, a photograph, or some small momento



Step One

Take a few moments to just sit quietly and think about her. On a scrap of paper, jot down the first words that come to your mind about her.

Step Two

Still thinking about her, write down one response for each of these:
a color, a texture, a scent or smell, a time of day, a season, a food, a song.

Step Three

If you have a favorite or special memory of the two of you, write down a few key words about it. You don't have to write details, just "caught in the rain," or "falling on the step" will do.

Step Four

Now, you're ready to write. On a scrap of paper, your first sentence should tell her that you were thinking about her today, and then include those first words that came to mind when you were thinking about her in step 1.

Step Five

Now, choose a few of the descriptive words (the color, scent, etc.) that you like the most. Make them into a couple of sentences. For example, if you're the romantic type, tell her that thinking of her reminded you of a warm sunny beach at midday, with the smell of jasmine on the breeze. Or, if you're more the strong and silent type, tell her that she is the softest, most beautiful woman you have ever known.

Step Six

Your last sentence should be something like, "It made me smile when I remembered ..." whatever your favorite or special memory is.

Step Seven

Read it over and make adjustments until it sounds right to you. Do not make adjustments more than twice; trust yourself. Your feelings will come through.

Step Eight

Write out your final draft on nice, quality stationary. Place a pressed flower, a small photograph, or something unique to the both of you inside. Seal it well or with a sticker that you know she will like.

Overall Tips & Warnings

  • You can buy single sheets and single envelopes of good stationary at art supply stores.
  • Be sincere and honest. Your love letter should truly be inspired by the thoughts you have of her. It will show in your words.
  • To a woman, it's the effort that counts. If it appears like you went through trouble just for her, she will love what you give her, no matter how difficult your handwriting may be to read.
  • Keep it about love and your appreciation of her. Don't inject sex into your love letter. (Save that for a different kind of letter, or yummy phone sex!)

writing a love letter

How to effectively write a love letter to a Man


You want to express yourself, but you're not sure what to say or how to say it. What will capture his attention?


Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

  • 30 minutes to an hour of interrupted time.
  • scrap paper
  • Masculine or neutral stationary (paper or email background).
  • A good writing instrument.



Step One

Sit quietly for a few minutes. Picture him in your mind. Think about the way he makes you feel and why.

Step Two

On a scrap of paper, jot down a few key words based on your thoughts. You can either formulate sentences out of these words, or simply use the words, alone, to convey what he means to you and why.

Step Three

Limit your sentences to 15 words. Limit your letter to four or five sentences, maximum. Three would be ideal. Men have very good imaginations, being the visual creatures they are. They don't need a lot of words to understand what you mean.

Step Four

Add a scent. If there is a scent you wear that he knows well, spritz a little in the air and wave your love letter through it. It will carry the smell without being overpowering.

Overall Tips & Warnings

  • Men are visual animals. Keep your words few.
  • Add a sketch or photograph to your letter. Or, if you're sending an email, find an image that conveys your feelings and include it at the end of your words.
  • Be sincere and honest with yourself; it will show in your words.
  • Lace and frills should probably be avoided. Consider his tastes when choosing stationary or an email background.

There we have it.. till next time on the Real Love Doctor Clinic! This is the Real Love Doctor Mac Signing out.


The Real Love Doctor Talks about planning your Valentine Date

The Real Love Doctor Talks about planning your Valentine Date

The Real Love Doctor Welcomes you all back for another session in our love clinic. Last time around we talked about how to effectively write an effective love letter for both man and woman, and boy follow emails poured in like crazy, okay well just about two mails. Hehe. They were all asking for the same thing though, one big question when valentines is just around the corner in just a couple of more weeks to be exact, they were asking how to have a perfect valentines date. Well that is just what the real love doctor Mac is all about. I am here as your friendly neighborhood Love Doctor and I will give out the best advices for you to make your partner happy, and make your very own experience in this year's valentine a successful and memorable one.

Valentine Dating for Couples Love doctor

Steps to take to prepare for a valentine date:

1. Plan ahead

Be it with months time preparation or now that it's just a couple of weeks ahead, Valentines needs a rough draft or a few imagination to go along. Ask yourself these few questions. Will I have a budget to spend when the date comes? What are her favorite restaurants? Can I afford to take her there? What are my alternatives? Gifts? How many hours will we spend outside? Movies? Something outrageous and out of this world? Will I be going according to her preference? My preference? Compensated preferences?

2. Gifts are Important

As a gentleman make it always a great hobby to offer your woman or woman to be gifts, women are suckers for gifts and usually feel special when you hand this stuff to them. Make the gift something she can use often, that way she can remember you every time she use your gift. Well think of something fast now.

3. Make Reservations

Always make it a habit to scout your place to hang out with, if good take the contact numbers of that place and call up weeks prior to the Valentine Event. This way you can avoid rush ups and competition with other couples dating during the same time of the holiday.

4. I go for a letter rather than flowers, but girls have a world different than our own

In other words, be unique. Uniqueness earns points to a girls heart, if chocolates are her craze give only a few, a simple flower and not a bouquet can be romantic, but bear in mind that a million men out there also will buy flowers, do you want to be with the majority too? Originality will bring out the best of you.

5. Lastly, treat her well and make her a princess even for the day only

Give in to her wishes and make this day special to her and for you to. If you got this mind set right from the start then I can guarantee you that you will have one of the most special day ever.

Have a blast the both of you, and I will be writing a few articles still before Valentines, So make plans now, write them up to make you remember them and start saving for that day, In my count valentines day prices are always bloated up to take advantage of couples celebrating the said event, so take this 5 steps for a successful and wonderful day.

Till next time, The Real Love doctor signing out of the love clinic. Feel free to mail me all your love problems and love inquiries on our new email ad blogger05@hotmail.com

Till next time Love Doctor is out

Why Women Don't Like Porn and other Men's Stuff that men like!

Why Women Don't Like Porn and other Men's Stuff that men like!

For today, Let us focus more on the funny side of life and not strain our backs on being a "womenizer" for just a short while, still as I have been saying since the past keep them letters pilling up please, the real love doctor will surely not hesitate to post some of your letters if it fits the Life, love and relationships topics. Good day.

I received a funny letter from a dear reader and I must say most of his thoughts about women is almost near perfectly true! Many thanks miss Genevieve for this funny yet humorous side of women in general.

real love doctor
why girls why?

Why Women Don't Like Porn

What you have to understand is that the average woman thinks that she is the only woman in the world who has a vagina. Not that they seriously think that, but it's a fantasy they all have. It's like being the only one to own a certain dress, or a certain pair of shoes. Seeing clear, irrefutable evidence that another woman has one that works perfectly well is a tremendous blow to the ego.

Why women don't like sports

Because it is competitive, and women being insecure about their own ability to compete physically (and rightly so), have a problem with even the idea of athletic competition. They condescend to pretending to like sports because guys like it, and a chick who likes sports is seems stronger amd more appealing.

Why Women don't like anal sex

Because everybody has an anus, which kind of removes them from being the sole porperty of the female sex. It doesn't make them feel feminine and sexy. Also they know that men will be grossed out afterwards and won't want to cuddle with them.

Why Women Don't Like Action Movies

The same reasons as sports, basically. Action movies involve competition that surrounds physical strength and skill, areas in which the femal sex is often lacking.

How to Properly french kiss someone

Hello dear Readers of the Real Love Doctor's clinic, today the Love Doctor will continue to give tips and know how's about Love and the art of body language in presenting one's love for another. Today as I checked on the last time in most of my emails, I have learned that a lot of those of you out there were asking on how to hug properly, when is the time for a great holding hands and even 2 letters on how to kiss correctly a girl. As I teared my self in laughing upon reading such things, I came up with a standard way of kissing passionately instructions just for you to follow. enjoy

Introduction To the ART OF FRENCH KISSING

French kissing is similar to another French invention: Champagne. A little bit will make you giddy but too much can lead to trouble. Whether you're studying up before a first date or simply curious, here are some French kissing techniques for anyone looking to learn how to French kiss.


Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

  • Breath Mints
french kissing in the real love doctor clinic



Step One

Remember that French kissing can quickly unhinge passions. Start with gentle pecks and tongue-free kisses as you get to know someone.

Step Two

When you're ready to French kiss, lean toward your date with your head tilted slightly to avoid bumping noses. Men may wrap their arms around a date's waist; women may wrap their arms around a date's neck.

Step Three

Make eye contact as you lean toward one another but close your eyes as the lips meet. Inadvertent eye-contact mid-kiss can be quite awkward.

Step Four

As you lean in for the kiss, have your lips parted ever so slightly and inhale through your mouth to heighten the senses and to avoid breathing on your date.

Step Five

Allow your lips to brush against each others to create light, feathery kisses. Keep the tongue in your mouth initially.

Step Six

As the kiss warms up, allow your tongue to flicker onto your date's lips. Don't let your tongue linger--keep the flickers quick and gentle.

Step Seven

If your date responds in kind, let your tongue extend back toward his or her tongue. Keep the movement light and gentle--tongue wrestling is a no-no.

Step Eight

Breathe through your nose as your tongues touch playfully and sensually.

Step Nine

Lose yourself in the moment: give complete attention to the kiss. If your mind is on anything else, you're missing out on the full experience.

Step Ten

End the kiss. French kissing can get messy if continued without breathers. Take time to nuzzle necks, nibble ears or whisper sweet nothings before diving in for another kiss.

Tips & Warnings

  • Fresh breath is essential. Avoid smelly foods (garlic, brie cheese, corn chips, coffee) beforehand. Freshen up with a mint or gum, making sure to dispose of the gum before kissing.
  • Some people find it helpful to practice French kissing on ice cream. It's a chilly but effective way to practice tongue flickers.
  • Read your date's body language to ensure a French kiss would be welcomed. Holding hands and gentle brush-ups during the date are good signs.
  • There is no single right way to French kiss. Kissing is as individual as the people doing it. The most important thing is to be true to yourself, your date and the moment.
  • French kissing can quickly unleash passions. Know your limits beforehand and be prepared to put the other person on hold when you reach them.
  • French kissing improves with practice. Don't be dismayed if your first time French kiss fails to ignite fireworks. Practice makes perfect.
  • Don't shove your whole tongue in the other person's mouth, it's not a pleasant experience.

How to Properly Prepare for a Date [ yeah for noobs and virgins ] VERY EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUE

1.Do some homework. In the days before a date, take time out to catch up with current events and hot topics. These are great conversation starters and you will be able to impress your date with your knowledge. Try to remember as much as you can about previous conversations together so you can follow up on them. Have a couple of funny stories or conversation pieces up your sleeve in case you need them.

2.Start looking and feeling good in advance. Set time aside for exercise in the days before the date, whether it's yoga or push ups. Eat well and get plenty of sleep.

3.Pick your clothes early. You should have several outfits laid out before the day of the date. This way you won't have any last minute panics when you realize you have a spaghetti stain down your favourite shirt. Plus, it will allow you to try on a few different looks on the day of the date and see which one fits your mood most comfortably at the time.

4.Clean up on the day of the date. Take a nice, long shower or bath. Ensure you have clean hair and nails. You should smell good, but not overpowering. Avoid heavy perfumes and aftershaves, especially if your date could be allergic. Ladies, go easy when applying make-up and aim for a natural but groomed look. If things go well he will eventually see you without make-up - and you will want him to recognize you at that point. Shortly before leaving for your date, floss and brush your teeth thoroughly.

5.Think positively. You're going out to enjoy yourself, after all. Don't start worrying about what disasters could happen, because that way they are far more likely to. If you are getting nervous, call a good friend, watch your favourite comedy show or listen to upbeat music. Loosen up. Focus on having fun and you inevitably will.

6.Be punctual. Give yourself plenty of time to get to your rendezvous. Keeping your date waiting will start things off on the wrong foot.

* Relax, be yourself, and be confident. More specifically, in addition to "being confident," you should "know your success" (success breeds confidence). Instead of "being yourself," try "being your best self".
* Sometimes even with the best preparation, your date might turn out awful. You may wish to have a "back out plan" in case this happens. Find a good friend you can call and then he/she can call you back in a few minutes so you can say you have some sort of crisis you need to attend to. You could also try being an honest person and say that you don't think it's working out, and that you need to leave early. Be prepared to contribute to the date and excuse yourself.
* Bring a condom. Whether you plan to use it or not, it is better to be prepared than to end up with responsibilities you didn't want. But, remember that you don't have to have sex.

Warnings and cautions
* Never put yourself in a compromising situation--most people are trustworthy, but "date rape" is unfortunately a real occurrence. Always have a first date in a public setting (restaurant, movie, club, mall, etc.) Only accept drinks served from a bottle or can opened by you or in front of you, or by a third party (like a bartender). Unfortunately, there are drugs ("date rape drugs") that can be added to ANY drink without any noticeable difference in taste. Some people use these drugs to put women (and sometimes men) in precarious situations. If you turn away from your drink, get into the habit of covering it with your hand, as it only takes a second to slip something into a drink. If you are suspicious, get a new drink.
* If you feel something's wrong, trust your instincts and politely but firmly end the date.
* Be sure to always have a cell phone and cash for a cab so that you never feel you have to rely on your date for a ride home.
* Always be careful about alcoholic intake.
* Don't Do Drugs

Seduction Tips #4 Use your sense of touch! The Real Love Doc recommends

Seduction Tips #4 Use your sense of touch! The Real Love Doc recommends

Hello once again dear readers, another update in our seduction tips section of The Real love Doctor's clinic. For today we will discuss the fourth seduction tip for men and women. That is to use the sense of touch as a weapon of seduction!

Read on how to use one of the basic overall senses of the human body, the sense of touch, to work in our favour.

In the previous seduction tips, we have talked about how to start a conversation and even the right timing to get her contact details, once the topics are flowing and both of you have well engaged in deep chat for around more or less than 5 minutes, it's time to use this special technique that some of us has learned to master. No we won't use the "touchy" feel thing nor do we need to cope a feel, some simple steps will do to get her interest aroused and make her feel that you are really into her.

real love doc
be compose all the time

Tap on the shoulder

When the chance arises, don't shy out in placing the palm on your hands directly above her shoulder blades, doing so gives her the feeling of belongingness and just making the atmosphere friendlier. Smile and calmly tap her shoulders once in a while and doing it once in every ten to fifteen minutes will do.

Pressing or lifting her elbows

This technique works well when the girl is holding on to her glass or drinks, when it appears that she is the one making more of the conversation and the time comes when it's your turn to talk, leverage her arms by holding on the tip of her elbows and slightly raising it, this will cause her to feel a little closeness between the two of you.

Holding her hands

When in guiding her to stand from a seat or better yet to help her out when taking steps, it's best to hold her hand and gently use your strength to keep her balance, her palms have most of the nerve endings of her body, so when she'll grab your warm hand, she will feel ease and security!

Guiding her lower back

Same as holding her hands, another closer approach can be guiding her lower back while taking steps, dancing or best while walking to some minor obstacles like ledges, small hallways, leaving doors or a puddle of water. This technique will not only boost your gentleman points but will make you the REAL MAN in shining armor for her, just don't over do it and act over excited, remember be calm and keep it cool!

The last and most important seduction techniques involving the sense of touch is playing, fixing and stroking her hair

I usually do this when we are both comfy on our chairs and sitting close together, I start while she is leaning forward and slowly play with the arch of the back of her head, trying to feel her long hair [or short hair], then after a few minutes I'll make an effort to brush it aside and fix it along her ears when the wind blows it away to reveal her face. Do this while smiling a little and looking straight at her eyes. This move will surely signal the girl that you are so into her! No situation can be the same, but if you master this technique it will work wonders for you!

There you have it folks, seduction tips for men today, and next time I will include women's seduction tips on men because I have received a couple of mails from women who also want to seduce men! Yeah women need advices from the Real Love Doctor too!

Till then the Real Love Doctor is signing out! Peace and Good blessings!   

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Finding a great Date this Valentines

Finding a great Date this Valentines

Introduction Finding a great Date this Valentines

Does spending another Valentines Day dateless leave you feeling sad and hopeless. It can be one of the loneliness nights of the year. Instead of letting it get you down, here are some tips for finding a casual date so you don’t have to go it alone.

Instructions Finding a great Date this Valentines

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You'll Need

  • Computer



Step One

Internet ads are easy to place and can net you immediate interest, making you feel better about yourself. EHarmony is the most popular. Call your girlfriend and have both of you spend time putting together a great ad. Remember that you’re looking for potential dates, not the love of your life. Keep your search criteria as open as possible to include the maximum number of responses. Have fun and use your sense of humor.

Step Two

If you’ve already got a profile up, change your headline, essay, and picture to help you generate more feedback. You can even hire a professional to rewrite your entire ad and make it the best it can be. Instead of using a snap shot, get a professional photograph taken which shows how you really look and brings out your personality.

Step Three

People all around you have family and friends in for the holidays that wouldn't normally be in town, so let your pals know you’re interested in having a date for New Year’s.

Step Four

Call up your single friend and ask him or her if they’d consider accompanying you to a New Year’s celebration. Go a step further and ask them to bring a co worker and you bring a co worker, too. Remind them that it’s just a casual date, and not romance, you’re looking for.

Step Five

When chatting on forums, find people you have a lot in common with in your area, and find out what they are doing on New Year’s Eve. As you find each person, invite them to meet you at a mutual place on New Years Eve.

Step Six

There are a lot of places where there are parties geared specifically toward singles. Search your local paper or internet for singles parties in your area.

Overall Tips & Warnings

  • Have a laid back approach about it all. This will help ease any worries of finding the right person, and instead open up their ideas to people you wouldn't normally considered.
  • Remember you are looking for a date, not a spouse.