Tuesday, March 25, 2008

How can you make a girl date you through phone call

How can you make a girl date you through phone call

Let the Love Doctor Help you out with a few short tips and reminders about dating through technology using the phone or even the internet voip services, in short how to ask a girl out using a call.

It's a long age question by boys and yes even men, who by chance wanted to take the other species out for a good date in either a restaurant, a snack, a movie or even any other activity that will waste time away with both of you enjoying each other's company, sounds easy? well for some this is a deathstrike, since they don't have the guts to just spit it out and ask the girl face to face, they opt to go to their mobile phone or landline and call, the worst case is they chatter mostly nonsense and in the end still didn't say the right words to ask the girl out. so here is just a few of my own personal tips to how I ask the girls out. The Love Doctor will lend you a hand.

First off, get to know the girl better first, make it a couple of days or even just a few simple hours and make her comfortable with you enough, that you can just talk to her casually and not in a stranger like manner anymore.

Don't strike and go, make the conversation short and funny but let it last at least 3-5 minutes and not speak in an untimely 20 seconds.

Greet and be polite, don't force yourself just because you're scared.

Give the girl options to where and what she wants, once you learned the spots and trades to what she expects on a good date, ask her out and claim you can offer her wishes.

Pick a good time of the day, usually after cofee or noon is the best time to ask for a date in a friday night or a lunch the following day.

Never bring anyone else into the conversation as she may think about bringing her friend along.

Be calm, be the man, control the situation and make the girl feel about it that you are the man when it comes to planning and finding options if she rejects you a couple of times.

Gave up after three false attempts on asking her out and she doesn't want to go. this ensures she doesn't feel comfortable enough with you yet. spend a little more time with her

Lastly and the ultimate secret in bagging her YES on dating you--- "Make Her trust you!" When she trust you, she will have no problem going out with you in public, pirvate or any places you can take her.

Your Call, Calling a Girl for a Date 101

Don't ask her on a "date" at all. Have some fun activity X planned for yourself, going to the beach or a dance club or hiking or a sport, whatever YOU like to do for fun. Casually invite her along much like you'd invite a regular(male) friend. Have a regular phone chat about the latest interesting events in your life / her life / current events just as you would with a guy friend, let the conversation wrap up "It's been good talking to you, I have to get going now for (mention the reason: work/dinner/plans/whatever)". But before you hang up, interrupt yourself to enthusiastically mention "Hey, I'm doing (activity X) later/tomorrow/Saturday (whatever day.) You should come along, it'll be fun". That takes all of the mentally stressful "date" pressure off of you and her. You're not asking her out, you're just a fun guy with fun plans and you're saying she can come have fun too. Do not even make it a question! State what your plans are and state that she can or should join you for a fun time. If she expresses interest wrap up any details quickly and GET OFF THE PHONE. More phone chat is just a chance to go downhill. Quicker and easier but less effective would be to skip the smalltalk, get on the phone and tell her you only have a moment to talk, tell her what fun thing you have planned for yourself, tell her she can or should come have fun too, and get off the phone quickly.

Here is more advice from people around the net

* Dial her number and talk to her a few times first. Then just ask her out, but make it a public place. Usually you would want to ask her if she would like to meet or to be picked up depending on how well you know each other.

* Don't go on a date like STRAIGHT AWAY. First find out if she wants to go out with you, if she says yes, get to know her favorite places and things. Then ask her on a date.

* Ask her out for a coffee, it's much easier than saying 'date'. It's not as forward as asking someone out for a meal, but still has a pseudo-romantic feel; and you keep a sort of non-committal attitude, meaning you can always say your intentions were completely innocent.

* To be honest, girls feel flattered when you ask them out personally (face-to-face). If you are too shy, don't say: "Do you want to go on a date with me," say something like "I'm going ______, would you like to come along?" If you want to make a great impression, ask her out in person!

*Even though I am a girl...I think that you should be calm about it! Don't freak about it! It isn't like the girl you want to date will kill you if you ask! The worst she can do is say no!

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